Saturday, January 17, 2009


(to whom it may consider...)
If a girl cries in front of you,
it means that she couldn’t take it anymore.
If you take her hand,
she would stay with you for the rest of
your life;
If you let her go,
she couldn’t go back to being herself

A girl wont cry easily,
Except in front of the person
who she love the most,
she becomes weak.

A girl wont cry easily,
only when she loves you the most,
she put down her ego.

Guys, if a girl cries bcoz of you
please hold her hands firmly,
she’s the one who would stay
with you for the rest of your life.

Guys, if a girl cries bcoz of you,
please dont give her up,
maybe bcoz of your decision,
you ruin her life.

When she cry rite in front of you,
When she cry bcoz of you,
Look into her eyes,
Can u see n feel the pain n hurt she’s

Which other girl have cried
wif pure sincerity,
Infront of you,
And bcoz of you?
She cry not because she is weak,
She cry not bcoz she wan sympathy or
She cry,
Because crying silently is no longer
the pain,hurt,n agony have
become too big a burden to be kept

Think about it,
If a girl cries her heart out to you,
And all because of you,
Its time to look back on wat u have done,
Only you will know the answer to it.

Do consider it,
Coz one day,
It may be too late for regrets,
It may be too late to say "im sorry"

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Thursday, January 8, 2009

Boycott and Protests

A South Korean protester holds a dove-shaped banner during a pro-Palestinian rally denouncing Israel's attacks on Gaza in front of the Israeli embassy in Seoul December 30, 2008. REUTERS/Jo Yong-Hak (SOUTH KOREA)

South Korean protesters step on an Israeli flag during a pro-Palestinian rally denouncing Israel's attacks on Gaza in front of the Israeli embassy in Seoul December 30, 2008. REUTERS/Jo Yong-Hak (SOUTH KOREA)

Palestinians from Switzerland chant slogans and carry banners reading: "Freedom for Gaza. No to the siege" during a protest against Israel's air assault on Hamas targets in the Gaza Strip, in Geneva, Switzerland, Monday, Dec 29, 2008. The demonstrators protest against the Israeli reaction on Gaza which has killed and wounded hundreds of Palestinians. (AP Photo/Keystone/Martial Trezzini)

Lebanese and Palestinian protestors carry banners and flags as they wear masks during a protest in Sidon, southern Lebanon, against Israeli attacks on Gaza December 29, 2008. REUTERS/Ali Hashisho (LEBANON)

Protestors flash victory signs during a demonstration in Berlin December 29, 2008, against Israeli air strikes in the Gaza Strip. Several hundred people took part in the march, police said. REUTERS/Fabrizio Bensch (GERMANY)

images and captions are from FLICKR
sources from the reuters

The brutal act by Israel with support from USA

GAZA CITY, GAZA STRIP - JANUARY 01: A wounded Palestinian child screams as she arrives at the Al-Shifa hospital after an Israeli air strike January 1, 2009 in Gaza City, the Gaza Strip. Israeli aircraft continued attacks in the Gaza Strip on New Year's Day and Israel's Foreign Minister Tzipi Livni reportedly said Israel will access military operations on a daily basis to determine when to cease operations in Gaza. (Photo by Fadi Adwan/Getty Images)

A Palestinian woman from the El Deeb family, who had ten relatives killed near a United Nations school Tuesday, weeps during their funeral in the Jebaliya refugee camp, in the northern Gaza Strip, Wednesday, Jan. 7, 2009. Israel's military paused its Gaza offensive for three hours Wednesday to allow food and fuel to reach besieged Palestinians, and the country's leaders debated whether to accept an international cease-fire plan or expand the assault against Hamas. With criticism rising of the operation's spiraling civilian death toll and Gazans increasingly suffering the effects of nonstop airstrikes and shelling, Israel's military said it opened "humanitarian corridors" to allow aid supplies to reach Palestinians.(AP Photo/Hatem Moussa)

Mourners pray beside bodies of Palestinians, killed at a U.N. school, during their funeral in Jabalya in the northern Gaza Strip January 7, 2009. Israel and Hamas said they were temporarily holding their fire in the Gaza Strip on Wednesday to ease the flow of humanitarian aid and both sides said they were studying an Egyptian proposal for a ceasefire. International pressure on Israel to halt its 12-day-old assault mounted after tank shells killed 42 Palestinians at a U.N. school in the coastal enclave. REUTERS/Mohammed Salem (GAZA)

A picture shows the body of a Palestinian girl found in the rubble of her destroyed house following an Israeli air strike on a three-storey house belonging to a Hamas member in the eastern Gaza City neighborhood of Zeitun on January 6, 2009. About 30 people were inside the house when it was destroyed by the air raid, neighbors said. Israeli tanks firing cannons and machine guns and supported by helicopter gunships also moved into the city of Khan Yunis in the southern Gaza Strip before dawn, witnesses said. AFP PHOTO/MOHAMMED ABED (Photo credit should read MOHAMMED ABED/AFP/Getty Images)

I this is your kid or any relative of yours, would you stand and watch only ?

A baby was born in this crucial moments. AP Reuters

These three woman is crying for their lost . What would it feel if you died when you know you're innocent ? Think about it a while .

Mourners carry bodies of Palestinians killed at a U.N. school during their funeral in Jabalya in the northern Gaza Strip January 7, 2009. Israel and Hamas said they were temporarily holding their fire in the Gaza Strip on Wednesday to ease the flow of humanitarian aid and both sides said they were studying an Egyptian proposal for a ceasefire. International pressure on Israel to halt its 12-day-old assault mounted after tank shells killed 42 Palestinians at a U.N. school in the coastal enclave. REUTERS/Mohammed Salem (GAZA)

Palestinian relatives of 4-year-old Lama Hamdan mourn near her body during her funeral in the town of Beit Hanoun in the northern Gaza Strip December 30, 2008. Israel on Tuesday rejected any truce with Hamas Islamists in the Gaza Strip before cross-border rocket fire ceased and said its air strikes, the fiercest in decades, heralded "long weeks of military action". In Beit Hanoun, two sisters, one of them Lama Hamdan, were killed in an air raid as they were taking out the trash near their home, medical workers said. REUTERS/Mohammed Salem (GAZA)


A wounded Palestinian is treated near a United Nations school in Jabalya in the northern Gaza Strip January 6, 2009. Israeli tank fire killed up to 40 Palestinians at a United Nations school in the Gaza Strip on Tuesday, medical sources at two Gaza hospitals said. REUTERS/Ismail Zaydah (GAZA)

These kids is cryong because of what ? Are they afraid ? In young age, they have to go through harsh time and lost everything they had in their life, maybe their family or maybe themselves. But, they won't cry anymore if they died, obviously. Instead, people will cry for them. Could you just stand and see any your child become an orphan??

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Wednesday, January 7, 2009

Abour girl that guy should know

When you call her, it's better to say hey beautiful instead of just hey what's up, because it will just get her more in the mood to talk to you and have a good conversation.

DON'T tell us when you think other girls are hot.

**When a girl keeps the argument going that's only because she doesn't want it to be the end between you and her.

If you and her are arguing don't come out and say she's a bitch or a hoe, because that will just make her feel like you really think that way of her and she wont understand you, but if you just simple tell her she's acting up and she needs to stop, she'll understand you more.

*Mark anniversaries on a calendar.

**When a girl is really hurt she'll just be silent and turn her face away from you

**To a guy, a kiss may just be a simple kiss, but to a girl it actually does mean something.

A guy looks at a girl's lips when he wants to kiss her, but a girl looks into his EYES.

*When a girl goes out of her way to fight any other girl for you, she's just proving to you that she would KILL for you.

*Don't say you love me if you don't mean it.

**Don't lie to us . . . we will CATCH you.

*When the girls get together, we talk about EVERYTHING. Meaning my best friends know everything about you.

There is no such thing as too much spooning.

**This is how we see it . . . Don't call = Don't Care.

*Which also means that if we don't call, take the hint.

When a girl says she wants to marry you, it DOESN'T LITERALLY mean she's going to jump into a gown and walk down the aisle with you, but in other words she's telling you she wants to spend her life with you.

*We like you to be a little jealous . . . but overly possessive is not necessary.

When a girl is standing outside with you in the cold and she turns to you and tells you she's cold she isn't telling you to take off your coat so you can freeze your ass off, she just wants you to hold her tight.

**When a girl always laughs and smiles around you that means you really do make her happy.

**When a girl tells you she'll always be there that doesn't mean you can leave her whenever you feel like it and come back whenever you feel like it, because in reality if she really is always there for you and you do that to her REALIZE you really don't deserve her.

When a girl cries infront of you she wants you to see how badly you hurt her.

*When a girl wont cry infront of you, but only when she's alone, she doesn't want you to know she's hurt because she wants everything to be fine.

**We're allowed to be late . . . YOU AREN'T.

The only reason a girl wouldn't show how she completely felt would only be because she doesn't want you to think she's obsessed.

**Three words . . . honesty, honesty, honesty.

Girls can be groupies. Guy groupies are stalkers.

"Fat Chicks" have feelings too.

**Silent treatment, shoulder shrugs, tears, yelling and nasty looks all add up to . . . YOU DID SOMETHING WRONG

***Do not start with us. You will not win... not kidding .. we ALWAYS win

*If you ask nicely, we usually answer the same way.

Open the door for us no matter where we are . . . even at our house and getting into the car.

*Whether a kiss on the lips is the best or not, a girl loves to be kissed on her forhead or cheek.

When you hold a girl's hand in public it helps her to feel stable because she knows that you want others to see that you and her are together.

**When you look at another girl, she doesn't flip out because she's jealous, it just makes her feel like she isn't good enough so you have to check out someone else.

*When she really has feelings for you just a simple hug makes her so happy

**When you're in a bad mood she really wants to hold up closer than ever, but she's afraid you'll push her away.

*When you're in a bad mood and you push her away she feels disowned

Even though you are sometimes insensitive and hurt us, we STILL love you with everything we are.

*Sometimes "NO!" really means "NO!"

Sensitive guys are great . . . but crying more than we do in a movie just isn't right.

**Don't let ex-girlfriends cause drama, relationships are stressful enough.

Tuesday, January 6, 2009

7 things About marriage

1. You will look at the person lying next to you and wonder, Is this it? Forever?

When you get married, you think that as long as you pick the right guy -- your soul mate -- you'll be happy together until death do you part. Then you wake up one day and realize that no matter how great he is, he doesn't make you happy every moment of every day. In fact, some days you might wonder why you were in such a hurry to get married in the first place. You think to yourself, "This is so not what I signed up for."
Actually, it is. You just didn't realize it the day you and your guy were cramming wedding cake into each other's faces, clinking champagne glasses, and dancing the Electric Slide. Back then you had no idea that "for better and for worse" doesn't kick in only when life hands you a tragedy. Your relationship mettle is, in fact, most tested on a daily basis, when the utter sameness of day-in/day-out togetherness can sometimes make you want to run for the hills. That's when the disappointment sneaks in, and maybe even a palpable sense of loneliness and grief. It's not him. It's just you, letting go of that sugarcoated fantasy of marriage that danced in your eyes the day you and your beloved posed in all those soft-focus wedding photos. You're learning that marriage isn't a destination; it's a journey filled with equal parts excitement and tedium.
Waking up from a good dream to face the harsh morning daylight may not seem like a reason to celebrate. But trust me, it is. Because once you let go of all the hokey stories of eternal bliss, you find that the reality of marriage is far richer and more rewarding than you ever could have guessed. Hard, yes. Frustrating, yes. But full of its own powerful, quiet enchantments just the same, and that's better than any fairy tale.

2. You'll work harder than you ever imagined.

Early on, when people say, "Marriage takes work," you assume "work" means being patient when he forgets to put down the toilet seat. In your naivete, you think that you will struggle to accommodate some annoying habit, like persistent knuckle cracking or flatulence.
If only it were that easy. Human beings, you may have noticed, are not simple creatures. Your man has mysterious, unplumbed depths -- and from where he sits, you're pretty complicated, too. You have to learn each other the same way that you once learned earth science or world geography. And getting married doesn't mean you're done -- it just means you've advanced to graduate-level studies. That's because every time you think you've mastered the material, he'll change a bit. And so will you. As two people grow and evolve, the real work of marriage is finding a way to relate to and nurture each other in the process.
"It's like losing weight," says Andrea Harden, 45, of Buffalo, NY. "You want it to be a one-time deal. You lost it, now just live. But then you learn it's a lifestyle. That's marriage. The effort is a forever thing." So don't be too hard on yourself -- or him -- on those days when you feel like you're struggling through remedial math.

3. You will sometimes go to bed mad (and maybe even wake up madder)

Whoever decided to tell newlyweds "Never go to bed angry" doesn't know what it's like inside a bedroom where tears and accusations fly as one spouse talks the other into a woozy stupor until night meets the dawn. If this scenario sounds familiar, I've got three words for you: Sleep on it.
You need to calm down. You need to gain perspective. You need to just give it a rest. I've found that an argument of any quality, like a fine wine, needs to breathe. A break in the action will help you figure out whether you're angry, hurt, or both, and then pinpoint the exact source. Maybe the fight that seemed to erupt over the overflowing garbage can is really about feeling underappreciated. Could be you're both stressed out at work and just needed to unload on someone. Taking a break will help you see that, and let go. Or maybe you really do have a legitimate disagreement to work out. Without a time-out, sometimes a perfectly good argument can turn into an endless round of silly back-and-forth, rehashing old and irrelevant transgressions as you get more and more wound up.
Even when you do manage to stay focused and on topic, there are some fights that stubbornly refuse to die by bedtime. And if you stifle your real feelings just to meet some arbitrary deadline, your marriage will surely be the worse for it. "This was a huge lesson for me," says Andrea. "As women we've been trained to make nice. But the whole kiss-and-make-up thing just to keep the peace was eating me up inside. I'd let things build up inside me until I just exploded. Now I wait a while to get hold of myself -- let the emotions settle a bit -- and state my position. Even if that means reopening the fight the next day."

4. Getting your way is usually not as important as finding a way to work together.

I can be a bit of a know-it-all. There, I said it. It's really not my intention to be hurtful or brash with people I love. It's just that a lifetime of experience has taught me that in most areas, at most times, I am right about most things. What shocked me several years into my marriage, though, was the realization that the more "right" I was, the more discontented my husband and I were as a couple. See, oddly enough, throughout his life Genoveso has been under the misguided impression that he's right most of the time (go figure!). So we'd lock horns -- often. That is, until I learned a few things.
Namely, that when it comes to certain disagreements, there is no right or wrong -- there is simply your way of looking at things and your husband's. "I used to be very black-and-white earlier in our marriage," says Lindy Vincent, 38, who lives in Minneapolis. "Now I see that I'm not all right and my husband is not all wrong. There's more gray in life than I thought, and that's taught me patience and the value of compromise."

5. A great marriage doesn't mean no conflict; it simply means a couple keeps trying to get it right

Maybe you think that because of my newfound wisdom, Genoveso and I never fight anymore. Ha! As important as it is to strike a balance, it's also important to have a big, fat fight every now and then. Because when you fight, you don't just raise your voices; you raise real -- sometimes buried -- issues that challenge you to come to a clearer understanding of you, your man, and your relationship. I wouldn't give up our fights for anything in the world, because I know in the end they won't break us; they'll only make us stronger.

6. You'll realize that you can only change yourself.

Ever seen the '80s sci-fi cult classic "Making Mr. Right?" When the stylish heroine, played by Ann Magnuson, is hired to teach a robot how to act like a human, she seizes the chance to create a perfect guy. A hotshot commercial whiz, she uses her marketing prowess to shape John Malkovich's android character into her personal version of the ideal man -- sensitive, eager to please, and willing to listen.
There is a bit of that makeover fantasy in all of us -- something that makes us believe we can change the person we love, make him just a little bit closer to perfect. We may use support and empathy or shouts and ultimatums, but with dogged conviction we take on this huge responsibility, convinced we're doing the right thing.
Whatever our motives, the effort is exhausting. Transforming a full-grown man -- stripping him of decades-old habits, beliefs, and idiosyncrasies -- is truly an impossible task. And you will come to realize, sooner than later if you're lucky, that it is far easier to change the way you respond to him.

7. As you face your fears and insecurities, you will find out what you're really made of.

There were clues when Genoveso and I were dating, especially with the trust thing. Early on, I was supersuspicious of him. He used to say things like, "I'll call you at 8." Then, just to try to trip me up, he'd call at 8. I knew he was up to something, I just couldn't figure out what. The same kinds of experiences followed after the wedding. Except occasionally he would actually mess up. And I had no sense of scale when it came to rating his offenses; everything was a major violation. Whether he teased me about a new haircut or came home late, I seethed for days and even let thoughts of divorce creep into my head. I figured, if he loved me -- really and truly -- this stuff wouldn't happen.
I'd like to be able to say that this irrational behavior lasted only a few months and I eventually worked it out. Kind of, sort of, is closer to the truth. After years of looking deeply into my soul and talking to good friends and the best sister a girl could ever have, I've come to recognize certain things about myself. Not to get all Dr. Phil about it, but I've had to examine my history with an emotionally distant dad and a strong-willed mom and face up to all the ways, both good and bad, that those relationships have affected how I approach my marriage.
That's the strange beauty of marriage: It's full of hard times and hard lessons that no one can ever prepare you for. But in the end, those are the things that give richness to your life together -- and make your love even deeper and stronger than when it began.

taken from YAHOO! tips on marriage.
2/12/2009 - Friday

Monday, January 5, 2009

The Four Elements and The Signs

The fact that the astrological signs are associated with certain astronomical constellations has led to much confusion amongst astrologers and non-astrologers. Basically, our zodiac and the signs are no more than a circular measure, a 360-degree scale. Each of the twelve sections of this circular measure has certain characteristics, based on qualities associated with the elements.

Tradition sees the entire universe as consisting of the elements fire, air, water and earth. When we apply this system to personalities, the elements represent certain basic traits and give a certain “temperament”. This varies according to the emphasis of the elements in the horoscope. Any placement of planets or personal points in a sign constitutes an emphasis. (see also “The Astrological Houses”)

The four elements can be regarded as four basic principles of life. These can be applied to all sorts of things through the principles of similarity and analogy. C.G. Jung has opened the door to a modern understanding of these categories by developing a system of types, in which the elements correspond to four basic functions of the psyche. The emphasis or non-emphasis of the elements in the individual horoscope reveals fundamental aspects of the personality.


People with a strong emphasis of the fire element are spontaneous and impulsive, they apply their energies wholeheartedly. Their emotional response is quick and they have a lively imagination.

Fire signs: Aries, Leo and Sagittarius


Airy people are quick and animated. They apply their energies in very diverse ways. They tend to intellectualize their feelings and expectations.

Air signs: Libra, Aquarius, Gemini


People with a strongly emphasized water element are feeling types and are very sensitive. Their imaginative and emotional lives are deep and rich.

Water signs:
Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces


Earthy people react quietly and slowly. They apply themselves with endurance. Emotionally they are deeply rooted and slow to change.

Earth signs: Capricorn, Taurus, Virgo

Sunday, January 4, 2009

Merajuk? Bagaimana untuk memujuk?

Saya percaya setiap pasangan akan mempunyai masalah ini. Tidak kira sama ada anda telah berkahwin ataupun sedang berkapel. Jika xberlaku merajuk dlm perhubungan, bkn perhubungan maknanya. Ttp, sekiranya si Dia merajuk.
Apakah yg anda akan lakukan?

Kenapa merajuk?

Sebelum kita mengetahui cara utk memujuk ini, kita harus tahu apakah menyebabkan seseorang itu merajuk. Ini krn merajuk disebabkan atas beberapa sebab.


Ya, ini merupakan faktor utama kenapa si Dia merajuk. Dia cemburu disebabkan ada sesuatu yg cuba mengambil anda dari dirinya. Seperti kawan-kawan, pekerjaan, keluarga dan sebagainya.

Tidak dapat apa yang diinginkan

Si Dia menginginkan sesuatu dari anda, tetapi anda tidak memberikannya. Sebagai contoh, Si Dia ingin memakan roti canai (kenapa pasal roti canai pulak ni?), tetapi anda tidak mahu, dan anda ingin makan benda lain. Jadi, si Dia pun merajuk sebab dia hendak jugak makan roti canai. Payah jugak ni.

Orang lain lebih hebat dari dia

Adakalanya dia akan merajuk untuk mendapatkan perhatian dari anda. Dan kadangkala, si Dia merajuk disebabkan ada sesuatu yang membuatkan dia berasa marah dan tidak selesa. Untuk mengubat perasaan dia itu, dia perlukan anda disamping dirinya tetapi dengan cara yang sangat berbeza — merajuk.

Bagaimana nak pujuk?

Ok. Sekarang ini kita sudah mengetahui sebab kenapa si Dia boleh merajuk. Dan sekarang bagaimanakah cara untuk memujuknya. Diingatkan, tips-tips ini bkn langkah2 utk memujuk, cuma sebagai panduan atau tips sahaja.

Terangkan perkara sebenar

Adalah lebih mudah berkata benar dari berdusta. Ceritakan kepada si Dia apa yang berlaku pada anda dan tanya pada si Dia kenapa dia merajuk. Berterus teranglah dalam perhubungan anda. Janganlah terselindung. Dengan mengwujudkan budaya bertanya dan berkata benar ini, dapat mengeratkan perhubungan kerana, anda mengambil berat si Dia. Ini juga bermaksud anda menunjukkan bahawa anda menyayangi dia.

Bertolak ansurlah dan bijak dalam membuat keputusan

Memang sukar untuk kita bertolak ansur tetapi xbermakna kita kalah sekiranya kita mengalah. Dalam situasi sebegini, anda haruslah bijak dalam membuat sesuatu keputusan. Sekiranya si Dia merajuk dan anda tidak berjaya memujuknya, gunakan gaya anda yang tersendiri dalam memujuk hatinya. Dengan ini, anda kelihatan bijak dalam membuat keputusan.

Ucapkan kata-kata “manis”

Manis tidak semestinya manis bukan? Ketika si Dia tengah merajuk, cuba anda bergurau senda dengan dia dengan menggelarkan si Dia, “bucuk”, “comot”, “manje” dan sebagainya. Dalam pada itu, selit-selitkan ayat-ayat power anda dalam perbualan tetapi masih mengekalkan perkataan-perkataan manis seperti yang saya sebutkan tadi. Adalah amat kelakar bagi saya sehinggakan saya pun sedang tersengih pada ketika ini.

Nyanyikan lagu buatnya

Ha…tips ini merupakan bagi saya tips yang paling ultimate. Kalau ditanya, berapa ramai yang sanggup nyanyi untuk kekasihnya? Pernah tak anda menyanyikan lagu untuk kekasih anda? Mungkin jawapannya ramai yang mengatakan tidak. Tetapi, saya pernah. Saya tidak berkata bohong. Saya pernah dendangkan lagu kepada kekasih saya. Dan kami siap berkaraoke di dalam phone lagi. Kami berduet bersama-sama. Adakah si Dia akan tersenyum dan ketawa? Sudah pasti ya. Kerana dapat mendengar suara buah hatinya menghiburkan dirinya. Tidakkah ianya menggembirakan? Sudah pasti senyuman terukir di bibirnya.

Spt yg saya katakan tadi, tips2 ini bukanya langkah-langkah tetapi merupakan panduan bagi anda dalam memujuk pasangan anda. Mungkin ada di antara tips ini xsesuai dilakukan kpd pasangan anda tp tips ini mungkin berjaya membuatkan si Dia tersenyum.

Perbezaan Suka dan Cinta

1- Di hadapan orang yang kita cinta, hati kita akan
berdegup kencang.
Tapi di hadapan orang yang kita
suka, hati kita akan gembira.

2- Di hadapan orang yang kita cinta, musim
sentiasa berbunga-bunga.
Di depan orang yang kita
suka, musim itu cuma berangin sahaja.

3- Jikalau kita lihat di dalam mata orang yang
kita cinta, kita akan kaku.
Tapi jika kita melihat
ke dalam mata orang yang kita suka, kita akan

4- Di depan orang yang kita cinta, kita menjadi
Di depan orang yg kita suka, kita akan
tunjukkan imej yang sebenar.

5- Di depan orang yang kita cinta, lidah kelu untuk
Di depan orang yang kita suka, kita
akan bebas berkata apa saja.